| Location | Highlandville, Missouri Mo |
| Age | 34 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 17/12/1974 |
| Date of Death | 30/08/2009 |
| Visitors | 7,117 since 12/09/2009 |
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Darrell Max Essary, Highlandville, MO was born December 17, 1974 in Santa Rosa, CA and departed life August 30, 2009 in Stone County, at the age of 34. Darrell Max was a native of Barry County. He graduated from Galena High School in 1992 and graduated from Graph Vo Tech in Reeds Spring as a Licensed Practical Nurse. Darrell Max completed his Registered Nursing Degree at Sanford Brown College in St. Louis. Also he was working towards his Masters Degree to become a practitioner. He was known for his special musical talent and had won several awards in his younger years. Darrell Max was currently involved with his cousin, DeShera Winter, in harvesting a one acre plot of land that he was so proud of. He was always sharing with everyone the bounties of his labor.
Darrell Max was busy with his dogs and puppies and vigilant in making sure others took the proper care of their pets. He was a very special young man who will be missed by everyone.
Burial was in the Scott Mountain Cemetery at Highlandville Missouri.
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MERRY CHRISTMAS !!!
To those who care ...
If you really care about Max, please know that nothing we can say or do will really matter in a court of law. The Judge will make his decision based solely on the facts of the case. If you want to do something to help, write a letter to the Stone County Court, Judge Blankenship, and ask that this matter come to trial without further delay. The sooner that a decision is made in court to resolve this matter, the sooner that Max can rest in peace. These are just my thoughts, I know you will make the decisions that are right for you, Peace and love to all. Darrel Day
This poem Darrell Max wrote for our "Grandma Lucille".
GOD Gave me a Flower by DMEII
God gave me a flower, He did indeed.
By creating a woman that helped;
whenever I was in need.
She took in another three, far long after
her double-quiver half,
had grown and left ...
Choosing their own path
If ever we strained her, it was not known ...
As during her end of days she said,
You three should have been my own.
"As we were and will always be" I answered to her...
Kneeling down on my knee..
I lifted her fragile hand to my lips, then upon it a soft, lasting kiss... Then I wispered, in a low tone
When I think of you ...
I shall remember the rose ...
Not red. Nor Pink or even gold.
But your true favorite Magenta. Not faded but Bold.
Yes, God gave me a flower, he did in deed.
My Magenta colored rose, is now sacred to me!
Darrell Max Essary II
Fallan Rider
If u just walked away what could I really say would it matter anyway would it change how I feel, U are the book I cant close but everthing changes and u know if I could turn back the years I would and if u could turn back the years maybe u could learn 2 forgive me then I could learn 2 feel All of the things I say All of the time I spent away So I guess i,ll just walk away maybe i'll catch up 2 u one of theses days
Your Life ...
How do we measure the life of a man? It's measured by the love he gives to his fellow man. You set an impossible bar for us to reach with the love you gave so freely, not only to family and friends, but to people you didn't even know. Jesus said, what you give to the least of my people, you give to me. You gave your love and friendship, the greatest gift of all. As we all start a new year, we reflect on your love and kindness. We are blessed to have known you and to have felt your love. Jesus has blessed you with a throne at his right hand, leading his choir. I would have loved to have seen the Angels faces when they heard your sweet voice sing! I will always love and remember you.
Darrel.
I'll never forget
Max I'll never forget what I'm learned from you and from your death. I think your right behind me as I type this. I feel you today and thats a first time I've felt like this.... I love you, I love your Mom, I love your sisters Heather, Canda, Paris,and Rue,and I love your brother Dunkin. And I know they love me. If I was to die I would hope I'ld be missed like you. Would you give me a kiss right now? I can't help the tears Max would you wipe them for me? I can't know the pain of the others right now I just know my pain....I want God to heal us all and to remind us what life is really about. You know now what we will all know in time. I would love for our family to set down at Christmas Dinner and hold hands and say grace. That not to much to ask is it? I feel like people take sides when there is really not any side to take. Either we love one another or we're lost in a dark mist...I want all who reads this to know live is about love! God is love! We need to love one another! It so easy to do. We just say nothing will ever stop my love for you and mean it. Max you knew about love it came easy for you. What a wonderful give you have. And I have learned that from your passing. Thank You Max You've gave me the greatest gift of all, I love you, miss you, need to see you, Your Aunt Vickie
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL♥
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There's a very special place beyond the skies above
somewhere very peaceful that is full of light and Love
That special place is Heaven, where you're free to laugh and roam
it was your time to go there so the angels took you home
And though you're in our thoughts each day throughout the year
at special times like Christmas we all Wish you could be here
Now you're in a better place,your soul is laid to rest
safe with all the Angels for they only take the best.
unknown
Christmas Without You
Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
� Pamela Hall
6th December, 1999
Although words seem to say so little,
I hope they help in some small way
to ease the sense of loss
that you're experiencing today.
Hold fast to your memories,
to all of the cherished moments
of the past,
to the blessings and the laughter,
the joys and the celebrations,
the sorrow and the tears.
They all add up to a treasure
of fond yesterdays
that you shared and spent together,
and they keep the one you loved
close to you in spirit and thought.
The special moments
and memories in your life
will never change.
They will always be in your heart,
today and forevermore.
- Linda E. Knight
I still hear the songs
I still see the lights
I still feel your love
on cold wintry nights.
I still share your hopes
and all your cares
I'll even remind you
to please say all your prayers.
I just want to tell you
you still make me proud
You stand head and shoulders
above all the crowd.
Keep trying each moment
to stay in His grace
I came here before you
to help set your place.
You don't have to be
perfect all the time
He forgives you the slip
if you continue to climb.
To my family and friends
please be thankful today
I'm still close beside you
in a new special way.
I love you all dearly
now don't shed a tear
cause I'm spending my
Christmas with Jesus this year.
Merry Christmas and Happy Peaceful New Year !!!
Sent with lots of love from Halina and all her Angels xxxxxx
Your Birthday and Christmas
"Christmas --- That magic blanket that wraps itself about us, that something so intangible that it is like a fragrance. It may weave a spell of nostalgia. Christmas may be a day of Feasting or a day of Prayer, but always it will be a day of Remembrance --- a day in which we think of Everything and Everybody we have ever loved --- "
Remembering the special times you made so special. You will always be in my heart and in my mind, I Love You.
Always, Darrel.
This poem Darrell Max wrote for our "Grandma Lucille".
GOD Gave me a Flower by DMEII
God gave me a flower, He did indeed.
By creating a woman that helped;
whenever I was in need.
She took in another three, far long after
her double-quiver half,
had grown and left ...
Choosing their own path
If ever we strained her, it was not known ...
As during her end of days she said,
You three should have been my own.
"As we were and will always be" I answered to her...
Kneeling down on my knee..
I lifted her fragile hand to my lips, then upon it a soft, lasting kiss... Then I wispered, in a low tone
When I think of you ...
I shall remember the rose ...
Not red. Nor Pink or even gold.
But your true favorite Magenta. Not faded but Bold.
Yes, God gave me a flower, he did in deed.
My Magenta colored rose, is now sacred to me!
Darrell Max Essary II
What I've learned from your passing...
It's cold and theres a bite in the air. The old man down the road says snow's coming on Friday. I prayed it would snow so he'ld feel good. He's a good neighbor the kind that would do anything he could to help you. Well Thanksgiving and Christmas will be here very soon and It makes me think of your birthday party you had last Dec. I loved it, with all us there. It was the first or may be the second time I met Darrell Day. I thought he was nice. You both made us feel welcome. You had Christmas cards and a Flower Bulb for each of us. You are always thinking about everyone. I look at your pictures and It makes me cry because I miss you and I think of all the time you were gone in St. Louis going to school and than working. We missed out on alot of time. And now I know just how precious time can be... Don't let any of us forget that. What would we had done different these last few years if we had only known you were to be taken away from us. I will always try to think about that when some little thing go 's wrong. You know we have the power to change anything that we want to ,if we want it bad enough. I think I've learned that being right is not always the best thing . The best thing is making things right... I love you and will always be thinking of ways to honor your life. Love Always and forever Your Anut Vickie
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